EveryDay People 365           


  January 2014-Issue I

The Male Perspective 

  Toys in the Bedroom 

Good tidings brothers! It’s the beginning of summer AKA Sundress Season.  The toes are out, the hair is loose and all that work she put into the gym since January 2nd is apparent.  For the bachelors like me, it’s the time for patience so you can find the right one to make it thru fall and winter.  Summer flings come and go, I wanna be warm in the winter, but I digress.  Some of us are boo’d up already and have been for a while and could be dealing with sexual boredom. If you are in a long-term relationship, you may have fallen into the Tuesday at 10, missionary to ride me, to doggy, then splash rut. 


Let's just jump into this.


Brothers when it comes to the bedroom we think we’re doing some real damage ‘cause they hooting and hollering as we flipping ‘em around and throwing that “Good D,” you’re probably hitting the right spots here and there.   If your lady is the mother of your children or you’ve seen a child be born, you know that your junk ain’t that big homie.  A woman can damn well pass a Perdue roaster out of her body so really fellas, we ain’t all of that!!  On the other hand, some women are just bigger and your joint is gonna be like you’re throwing a hot dog down a hallway.  What I’m saying is, there are all different size vagina’s and penis’.  Some women may just like a “fuller” feeling than you can supply her.  Doesn’t mean she loves you any less cause she’s with you, even though you’ve got that dumbass tat of that broad you dated 23 years ago on your arm.  That’s cool, don’t trip.  If you love her, do for her as you would yourself. There is so much more you could be doing to give her pleasure and satisfaction IF you were to bring some adult toys into the bedroom.  Have an adult conversation and find a well-stocked adult sex toy store to find enhancements to your sex life.


Have you made love to her recently?  It’s been two days she already knows you wanna beat the brakes off of ‘dat ass.  Nothing says love and unselfishness by getting her off and just not yourself.  This can be accomplished in many ways but if her tingle requires more or deeper penetration, a life like vibrator with a warming lube can kick it up a notch for your relationship.


Feeling like a bitch ni99a going to a shop like this? Amazon is your friend.  On Amazon you can find what you are looking for and I implore you to read the reviews from others wanting to expand their game or just get “their freak on”.  Soaping up the Queen in your life in the shower and introducing a vibe that isn’t waterproof in the middle of an “its all about you session” and having it fail is one you will not soon live down.  Learn about vibes, electro-stim, cock rings, Wartenberg wheels, sounding equipment, plugs, and anal beads (didn’t Amber ask Kanye if he wanted his back when he dumped and dissed her?) Variety is the spice of life, season it liberally.


However you acquire your toys is up to you but I implore you to check out some of the relationships here: (INSERT WEB SITES)  EDP365.com has relationships with. Ask questions and fear not of your ignorance.  


I leave you with this: 

Ephesians 5:28 reads :

In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as the love their own bodies.  For a man is actually loving himself when he loves his wife.


The Obsidian Gent





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June 2018